Anamnesis Given their druthers, most of us would suffer from an awful pest: addiction. Sitting in front of a computer for several hours, the excessive cultivation of contacts in social networks, the consumption of online pornography is only a cry for help. Because: You are suffering from addiction. But relax, there’s help. Last week I’ve read about various types of computer or Internet...
I slipped off my high heels and asked her to unzip the back of my dress. We had been out to a fancy dinner for the night and were back at our hotel room. She unzipped the top part of the dress and unexpectedly moved her hand around my waist, drawing me closer to her body at the edge of the bed. I felt her mouth on the side of my neck, marking a trail of kisses on me, and her fingers hiking up my...
Today’s illustration shows the world-wide legal status of pornography. Green: pornography is legal, yellow: pornography is subject to some restrictions, red: pornography is forbidden, grey means missing data. The international legal situation knows only two extremes: pornography is completely forbidden, or it’s completely open (usually with age restrictions and explicit bans on criminal...
Some days are like biting into a peanut butter cup that has gone old before it’s time leaving you with a mouth full of dried chalky peanut butter that’s unpalatable. Others are like sinking your teeth into the soft rich creaminess of that nutty heaven washing it down with a wave of rich chocolate goodness. Today was definitely the later but I had doubts when my bedmate woke me an hour after...
My gay boyfriend and I used to go out to gay clubs together. He loves partying with lesbians and was glad to be my wingman to assist in meeting women. One evening before heading to a club, we were having dinner at a French restaurant, the two of us at a table, and an old man came over. “I want to tell you two what a beautiful couple you make,” he said. “You will have such gorgeous babies one...
Last week I’ve described my pornographic awakening and the first moments of porn arousing me. I’m deliberately using the term awakening, because this moment had a quasi-religious feeling in retrospect. Okay, let’s hold our breath for a moment. Porn and religion? Serious? Please forget your Calvinistic or Puritan socialization for a while. This is about the religion your iconoclastic...
I had thought that my ex-girlfriend, K, was possibly “the one.” When we had dinner on our first date, she was in bed with me in two hours. The connection we had was passionate, intense, close, and tender. My friends noted how I glowed in her presence and that we seemed to go together. We fell madly in love, and I felt her adoration for months, her sweet love notes and homemade dinners and her...
The latest artwork of Ruby Day at Pornsaints.org by Joshua Burbank I am excited to announce the latest piece of art from Pornsaints.org was released this week. To find out more about the artwork, artist, and to purchase click the image above or go to: http://www.pornsaints.org/blog/pornsaint-ruby-day-0 ...
Remember last week’s post when I told you about my discovery of that porn magazine collection hidden in a cabinet down in the cellar? Viewed in retrospect, this episode provides a lot of psychology. The descent into darkness, the discovery of forbidden secrets, the defilement of my naive mind. It was a step towards maturity by salvaging a hidden treasure. The main actor – besides me –...
I keep thinking I’m going to sit down and write about something, actually anything, and every moment I get Sigmund needs to be taken outside, lunch needs to be made, the mail needs to be gotten because a package was delivered, the dryers screaming to deal with the clothes in it, or my poor sick bedmate needs something. All the while I had my usual list of tasks to accomplish and not much...
The secret I’ve found in online dating is: If there’s chemistry across the computer screen, it will exist face-to-face, and if there’s not, chances are that sparks will not magically come about. I’ve been so intuitive about whom I date via the internet that I’ve either entered into relationship or had a romantic affair each time I’ve gone out on a date. I prefer to correspond with a new...
