{"id":707,"date":"2013-05-22T09:00:48","date_gmt":"2013-05-22T14:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/?p=707"},"modified":"2015-05-05T20:36:09","modified_gmt":"2015-05-06T01:36:09","slug":"immature-at-30","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/2013\/05\/22\/immature-at-30\/","title":{"rendered":"Immature at 30+"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/05_22_13.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-697\" alt=\"05_22_13\" src=\"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/05_22_13.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/05_22_13.jpg 600w, http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/05_22_13-500x333.jpg 500w, http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/05_22_13-84x55.jpg 84w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>From time to time I get reminded why I rarely interact within the swing lifestyle. Most people aren&#8217;t mature enough to handle the relationships it creates. Friends of mine are come into town next weekend for Memorial Day and have been calling their friends to invite them to a party they are throwing. In the midst of phone calls a whole slew of drama begins to unfold as to if so and so is coming than I won&#8217;t be there type of drama. Past partners are in tiffs and don&#8217;t want to socialize with each other, some just have unknown beef with others, some don&#8217;t like other people, you get the drift. My question is&#8230; If you are going to a mutual friends party why can&#8217;t you all behave like adults and enjoy the time still being polite to those you don&#8217;t care for? I do it all the time. I don&#8217;t care for everybody but I can be civil the small amount of time I&#8217;m around them. Instead people make a big ordeal out of it. My resolve&#8230; you don&#8217;t have to show up if you can&#8217;t act your age!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From time to time I get reminded why I rarely interact within the swing lifestyle. Most people aren&#8217;t mature enough to handle the relationships it creates. Friends of mine are come into town next weekend for Memorial Day and have been calling their friends to invite them to a party they are throwing. In the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":697,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1120,4626,9,3047,4625,37],"tags":[617,618,5101,615,440,616,480,612,611,614,16,610,38,11,12,14,57,52,13,613],"class_list":["post-707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-contributors","category-day-in-the-life-vlogs","category-diary","category-ruby-day-2","category-ruby-day-tv","category-show-all","tag-617","tag-age","tag-diary","tag-drama","tag-ginger","tag-immature","tag-lifestyle","tag-location","tag-location-scouting","tag-memorial-day","tag-photo","tag-photographer","tag-red-hair","tag-red-head","tag-ruby-day","tag-rubys-diary","tag-rubyday","tag-rubysdiary","tag-rubysdiary-com","tag-swing-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/707","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=707"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/707\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":708,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/707\/revisions\/708"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/697"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=707"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=707"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rubysdiary.com\/RubysDiaryBLOG\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=707"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}